Quora Answer || I am 21 years old, I don't have a job, have poor grades, living with my parents. Is there any hope for me to change and live my life in a better way?

You’re born and given a chance to live in beautiful world. You should know the value of your life and do not limit yourself for anything. You’re just on your own timezone.

You’re unique in your own way, don’t try to compare it with anyone.

You too can do anything if you work hard enough for what you want to achieve but here, people do not even work hard for what they want and than they call it “impossible”, isn’t it unfair?

There will be times when you will fail miserably and you would want to give up on life but ask yourself a question, “Where you born just for this?”

When you fail, learn to take a rest and stand up again. It’s hard to beat a person who never gives up. -Babe Ruth

Don’t limit yourself or don’t shape your life the way society wants you to, shape it the way you want to live and make the most out of it.

What do you want while lying on your death bed? Happiness of having no regret and knowing that you lived your life the way you wanted it to be or regrets ?

I’m mentioning few lines from EmotionalFulls :

This world is a beautiful, lovely and amazing place and you have been sent here to make it more beautiful and more amazing.

Who has sent us ?? Nobody has been able to know that till date and probably it's not even important.

So please don't waste your time on such questions, We all have a limited time here.

and however we might have, it always seems less.

There is so much to see, so much to know and so much to experience that you don't have any time to waste.

Possibilities are endless, you can become anything, you can change this world, try something new, every day try to learn and understand something new. and if in doubt.

Remember, it's always better to regret something after doing it rather than regretting without doing it. because by doing something, even if you don't gain anything, you will gain experience which is very valuable.

Experience everything, but don't get addicted. Experience will help you differentiating right from wrong, it will prevent you from committing mistakes. but don't be afraid of committing mistakes. because only those who do something make mistakes.

Take responsibilities for your mistakes and try to rectify them, forgive other people's mistake and give them a chance to rectify it. No one likes to commit mistakes, No one misbehaves on purpose.

You don't know, what's going on in anyone's life. so treat everyone the way you treat yourself, respect everyone, trust everyone and most importantly love everyone.

Love is sparse in this world and everyone needs it, you'll need it too, don't hesitate to ask for it, don't hesitate to show it, life is too short to be shy.

Dance like there is no tomorrow, sing with all your heart, eat as much as you can, laugh loudly and always cry like a baby.

Only your body should grow old, not your heart. The day you lose your innocence, you loose your life.

Think about the future but don't worry about it.
Think about the past but don't get lost in it.

There will be good days and bad. Don't boast too much when the days are good and don't lose hope when the days are bad.

Don't give yourself all the credit for your success and never blame others for your failures.

Just keep moving forward, keep spreading happiness and always remember, You have been sent here just for one reason, to make this world more beautiful and more amazing.

All the credits for these quoted words goes to this video: KHAT || EmotionalFulls

If you want complete lyrics you can checkout my blog post: Grandfather's letter to his grandson on his first day in this world

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